Monthly Archives: June 2014

What is the most important question to ask?

The ‘research stage’.  What to find out? What are you trying to learn about the prospective shiduch? In no particular order: A little about what he is doing now. His values. His hashkafa. Some about his family and upbringing.  Personality. … Continue reading

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Is silence on a date always awkward?

Conversation moves along nicely. And then there’s silence. Awkward! Or is it? Silence doesn’t always mean that you have nothing to say to each other. Remember, it’s only silence. It’s your own thoughts and feelings about that silence that might … Continue reading

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Anyone can suggest a shiduch

Anyone can suggest a shiduch. Really. You know 2 people and you think that they might be compatible. Then you can go ahead and suggest it. But too often people just don’t. Why is that? After an unscientific survey, it seems … Continue reading

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