Category Archives: Anyone can be a Shadchen

Dear parents, you mean well, but …

A young lady writes a letter to her parents: I know you want to see me settled in a happy marriage, and that is why you are working so diligently for a shiduch for me. I love you, I truly appreciate your intent, but the way you are going about it isn’t working for me. Continue reading

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There are no rules in Shiduchim. Part 2

If you have an idea for a shiduch, who should you approach first – the family or advocate of the young man or woman? It depends.  There are some points to consider. Continue reading

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Words Have Power

So much of communication is not the overall message but the actual words, tone, what is stated first, etc. These all reflect what is in our hearts about the matter. Continue reading

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Networking for a Shidduch

What and when and where to network. Continue reading

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When suggesting a shiduch, ask for permission

by Devora Krasnianski, founder of Adai Ad Institute Consider this: Yossi has been dating Leah for 3 weeks. There is a lot he likes about her and he really thinks that they might be compatible. But… not quite yet.  He always … Continue reading

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Anyone can suggest a shiduch

by Devora Krasnianski, founder of Adai Ad Institutev Anyone can suggest a shiduch. Really. You know 2 people and you think that they might be compatible. Then you can go ahead and suggest it. But too often people just don’t. Why … Continue reading

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